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しょうがない shou ga nai
Nothing to be done, so let it go.
What does shou ga nai mean?
Half surrender, half comfort. It closes the topic when rain, trains or fate have already decided, and it lets everyone stop being angry.
Example
電車が止まったなら、しょうがないね。
If the trains have stopped, then there's nothing we can do.
Vibe
Who you can say this to, and how it lands.
Safe to use Fine in ordinary conversation.
The story behind shou ga nai
It started as shiyou ga nai, there is no way of doing it, then wore itself smooth in daily speech: shiyou ga nai, shou ga nai, and in Kansai the cheerfully blunt shaanai. The erosion tells you how often the phrase gets used.
Abroad it has a reputation as proof of Japanese fatalism, usually quoted after floods and delayed trains. Up close it is doing kinder work. It is the sentence that closes a topic once blame has stopped being useful, so that nobody has to keep apologising for weather, traffic or bad luck. Said to yourself it is surrender. Said to someone else, gently, it means stop carrying this. It was never yours to fix.