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sontaku

Doing what the boss wants before they say it.


What does sontaku mean?

Reading someone's unspoken wishes — usually someone above you — and acting on them. It can be thoughtful, but these days it mostly suggests uncomfortable deference.

Example

I read my boss's face and ended up doing what he wanted unasked.

Vibe

Who you can say this to, and how it lands.

Be careful This one carries weight. Read the meaning and the story before you say it to anyone.

  • Depends on context
  • Casual

Culture note

An old, neutral word until a 2017 political scandal made it the buzzword of the year. Since then it carries a sour aftertaste of bureaucrats guessing what power wants.

The story behind sontaku

Both characters mean roughly to gauge or measure a depth, and the pair is ancient — it turns up in classical Chinese poetry as measuring what is in another person's heart. For most of its life in Japanese it was a written word, formal and neutral, the sort of thing you meet in an essay and never once say aloud.

Then in 2017 a political scandal turned on whether officials had acted on a wish nobody had actually expressed, and 忖度 became the word of the year. Foreign correspondents wrestled with it publicly. Now it is everywhere and slightly sour: people joke about 忖度 in seating plans, and 忖度なし, no deference, has become a selling point.

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