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ご縁 go en
The invisible thread between people.
What does go en mean?
The connection that brought you this friend, this job, this stray cat. Japanese people credit it constantly, half jokingly and half seriously.
Example
この店を見つけたのも何かのご縁だね。
Finding this little place must have been some kind of fate.
Vibe
Who you can say this to, and how it lands.
Safe to use Fine in ordinary conversation.
The story behind go en
En is a Buddhist import: the web of causes and conditions that quietly arranges who ends up in your life. Stick the polite go on the front and you get an everyday word for the invisible thread that delivered this friend, this apartment, this cat sitting on your laundry. Nobody has to fully believe in it to use it constantly.
The pun makes it stick. Five yen is go en, so the five yen coin is the classic offering at a shrine, a small bet on good connections. Couples pray for enmusubi, the tying of the thread, while a lost job or a failed romance gets closed off with en ga nakatta. The thread simply was not there, and nobody has to be blamed.