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ogoru

This one's on me.


What does ogoru mean?

To pick up someone's tab — a coffee, a bowl of ramen, the whole dinner. Less about the amount than about saying, warmly, that today it's on you.

Example

I'll treat you today.

Vibe

Who you can say this to, and how it lands.

Safe to use Fine in ordinary conversation.

  • Casual
  • Wholesome

The story behind ogoru

Treating in Japan runs on seniority more than on wealth. The senpai who is two years ahead pays for the kouhai's ramen, the older cousin covers the cinema snacks, and everyone under thirty has stood at a register performing a half-hearted reach for their wallet that they know will be waved away.

The kanji also carries an older sense of living lavishly, which is why the word feels a touch grander than "paying." Being treated isn't free, though: it opens a small tab of goodwill, closed the next time you say the word first.

Get ogoru in your pocket

おごる is one of 308 words in YABAI, a Japanese culture snack for Android. Every word comes with its meaning, an example sentence, a vibe check and a story like the one above — in 13 languages, read aloud by your device. Paid app: no ads, no sign-up, no subscription.

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