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おごる ogoru
This one's on me.
What does ogoru mean?
To pick up someone's tab — a coffee, a bowl of ramen, the whole dinner. Less about the amount than about saying, warmly, that today it's on you.
Example
今日は私がおごるよ。
I'll treat you today.
Vibe
Who you can say this to, and how it lands.
Safe to use Fine in ordinary conversation.
The story behind ogoru
Treating in Japan runs on seniority more than on wealth. The senpai who is two years ahead pays for the kouhai's ramen, the older cousin covers the cinema snacks, and everyone under thirty has stood at a register performing a half-hearted reach for their wallet that they know will be waved away.
The kanji also carries an older sense of living lavishly, which is why the word feels a touch grander than "paying." Being treated isn't free, though: it opens a small tab of goodwill, closed the next time you say the word first.