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osaki ni shitsurei shimasu

Sorry for leaving before you.


What does osaki ni shitsurei shimasu mean?

The phrase you say to still-working colleagues on your way out. Yes, you are apologising for going home — usually answered with a cheerful otsukaresama.

Example

I said "excuse me for heading off first" and left the office.

Vibe

Who you can say this to, and how it lands.

Safe to use Fine in ordinary conversation.

  • Wholesome
  • Depends on context

The story behind osaki ni shitsurei shimasu

Shitsurei means a lapse of manners, so the phrase you say on your way out of the office is, word for word, an apology for the rudeness of leaving before other people. Somewhere in there is the whole history of Japanese working hours.

In practice it is a courtesy, not a confession. You say it, the room answers otsukaresama, and the ritual releases you cleanly instead of letting you slink off. Younger workers, remote schedules and a decade of pressure on overtime have loosened the guilt considerably, though the words held on, now typed into a chat window at six with a small wave. Leaving on time is normal. Announcing it is still polite.

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お先に失礼します is one of 308 words in YABAI, a Japanese culture snack for Android. Every word comes with its meaning, an example sentence, a vibe check and a story like the one above — in 13 languages, read aloud by your device. Paid app: no ads, no sign-up, no subscription.

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