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グダグダ gudaguda
It all went shapeless.
What does gudaguda mean?
A plan, a meeting or a party that loses its structure and just... continues. Nobody is steering, everyone is tired, and it still has not ended.
Example
打ち合わせが長引いて、最後はグダグダだった。
The meeting dragged on and by the end it was a total mess.
Vibe
Who you can say this to, and how it lands.
Friends only Casual. Natural with friends, out of place at work or with strangers.
The story behind gudaguda
Japanese has a huge inventory of doubled sound words describing texture rather than noise, and グダグダ belongs to that family. It carries no dignity at all, which suits what it names: the point at which a thing has lost its shape but has not had the decency to end.
It is at home in two settings. The drinking party that should have finished two hours ago, and the live broadcast where the planned content ran out and everyone is discussing nothing in particular. Both are failures on paper and both are, quietly, the part people remember. There is a verb form, グダる, for when the collapse is still in progress.