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ぼっち bocchi
Alone, party of one.
What does bocchi mean?
Clipped from hitoribocchi, all alone. These days it is half lament, half flex: solo lunch, solo karaoke, solo camping.
Example
今日は昼ごはんぼっちだった。
I had lunch by myself today.
Vibe
Who you can say this to, and how it lands.
Be careful This one carries weight. Read the meaning and the story before you say it to anyone.
About yourself this usually passes as a joke. Aimed at someone else it is an insult.
The story behind bocchi
Bocchi is clipped from hitoribocchi, all alone, and the tail of that word is worth knowing. It is thought to come from an old term for a solitary wandering monk, which gives the whole thing an unexpectedly poetic shadow: a person moving through the world without a group.
Modern use keeps the loneliness but adds a shrug. Solo lunch, solo karaoke, solo camping, solo trips to the amusement park. Some of it is genuine ache, especially in school years when eating alone is a public event. Plenty of it, though, is a small boast, and a whole leisure industry now quietly serves people who would rather go by themselves.